Reader Question:What do I do with my family baggage?

So I've received a couple of questions lately about family background and how to prevent a troubled family background from reoccurring in a current relationship or scaring potential partners off. First, I will start with the bad news: childhood and family experiences are some of the best predictors of what someone, and you, will be like as a partner and

Reader Question: Do I honor my commitment when my wife doesn’t?

I was deployed for a year when I came home my wife had 2 women living with her. They were sharing the same bed. When I returned she was emotionally connected with these 2 ladies. I have been home 11 months and my wife moved into the spare room and the ladies moved out, but my wife goes to

Reader Question: What to do after an emotionally abusive relationship

I just ended my four year engagement to my fiance, bc he was emotionally abusive and scared me bc of his erratic behavior. He was also loving and affectionate and very generous at times. How do I deal with this situation? I'm so confused if I did the right thing. Do I try to date again? Or